OK guys I am almost sure this is a water pump issue. This has been happening for awhile with both 180 and 195 (verified correct) t-stats. Basically the coolant just ain't movin. When the head is ready to overheat the radiator is full of cold (literally I can open the drain cock and cold water comes out). It acts like air in the system but that's not it, it will come back to a rise and fall exchange with the reservoir but it can't hold it, eventually it just boils it over again. I flushed the system just this week and verified there's no clogs, the radiator flows with no leaks also, got plenty of antifreeze in it but no dice.
The water pump is one of these 4D56 types that are undoubtedly China made now, a little more than a year old. The only thing that could have stressed it is the belt a little too tight but I doubt that was it. What makes me just about certain it's not making enough pressure is that I switched from the 195 t-stat back to the 180 and it was fine for awhile, although a bit hotter than normal, but not boiling over. Then one day it started doing it, boiling over again, and it just clearly lost pressure.
Thankfully I can rule out the head gasket since it's clear water ain't flowing through the radiator (and that too). Also thankfully I've never actually hit the red line overheating and really never let it get to the upper white line which is 260?
So my conclusion is that it has to be the pump unless you guys can think of anything else but you know and I know about China, there's a bad egg in every dozen and the fact that it fails just outside of a year seems to confirm that. So that's why I ask the guru if there's any other options but the $80 one from GB. I am going to add an intercooler so that should help relieve the heat of the turbo.